In This Timeline
A grief essay about guilt, alternate timelines, and what it means to love someone you couldn't save—and how that love outlasts the losing.
In defense of longing
Our very ache the hallowed hollowing of endless becoming
This is the fourth year since your son died
A meditation on grief four years after losing a child—on unexpected moments, shattered faith, and the quiet anchors that keep us here.
Before the Resurrection: Grief, Loss, and Hope Revisited
Ren's life and death will always be inextricably intertwined with injustice in my mind—abuse of a voiceless, minority child, lost and invisible in the fissures of a broken system that should have protected him
Christmas For Those Who Grieve
Christmas is not always a joyous time for everyone, particularly for those of us who are grieving.
I write this letter for you.
Here. Here. Here.
As I pondered over the madness of spending hours on social media or pursuing an unrequited, unfulfilling friendship, I caught myself thinking more and more, “This is not how I want to spend my life.”