"I'll write you down until you're permanent"
After a Signal sync failed, I lost the last texts from my late son. A grief essay on digital memory, chat backups, and who keeps us remembered.
In This Timeline
A grief essay about guilt, alternate timelines, and what it means to love someone you couldn't save—and how that love outlasts the losing.
What Is Memoir For?
On the power of introspection, messy as it can be, and Lindy West’s “Adult Braces”
We do not always hit the water
Three generations of women stand at the edge. In this essay, I trace grief, inherited silence, and a last promise to live
Shine for the Fat Lady
A personal essay-style review of Salinger's Franny and Zooey—exploring art, ego, love, and how this book changed my entire life path
How to Love Your Mother
A daughter reckons with childhood abuse, a mother's belated apology, and what it takes to rebuild trust across thirty years of silence.